To achieve a purpose, we first set a goal. A purpose is an abstract idea, which is an ideal or direction we wish to pursue, while a goal is a concrete target that must be reached through action in order to fulfill that purpose. A plan, then, is the breakdown of that goal into smaller, manageable steps and specific actions.
For example, imagine a family planning a trip to an island to go fishing and enjoy a seafood meal together in hopes of strengthening their bond. In this scenario, the purpose is family harmony, the goal is taking the trip, and the plan involves fishing and sharing a seafood feast.
But do we always have to follow our original plan exactly as it was made in order to achieve our purpose? People often assume that things will go smoothly only if everything happens according to plan. As a result, they may be reluctant to make changes—especially when a lot of time and thought has gone into the planning process.
Yet the future is unpredictable, and even the most carefully made plans can be disrupted by unexpected circumstances. That’s why we need to remain flexible, recognizing that plans may—and sometimes should—change. (Of course, if things fall apart simply because of laziness or lack of effort, that’s another matter entirely.) But when we cling too tightly to the plan, we risk losing sight of the purpose behind it. Think back to the earlier example. If the family ends up arguing because their plans to fish or eat seafood don’t work out, then the original purpose—family harmony—has already been compromised. In the end, it’s not the plan that matters most, but the purpose.
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